Reading People From Potential Victim`s Point of View
Good Day Readers, Today we will Continue with the Next Topic of our Chapter " The Importance of Reading People " .
In this chapter we will be discussing about Reading People from Potential Victim`s Point of View.
If we take a look at Annie`s point of view and see things from her angle, we can try to get a sense of what this encounter might feel like and how you yourself should handle yourself in such an encounter.
The difficulty here, if the Practitioner is Good, is that there has yet to be any indication that this person is not who he says he is. Or is there?
Here are some Red Flags to look out for when a stranger approaches you and Tries to engage you, for whatever reason.
First of all, Annie may have noticed the presence of this man before if she had been paying attention. Remember how we discussed how David spent some looking around and observing potential targets? One of the first thing you can do to protect yourself in public is to be aware of your surrounding's.
When Annie first gets to the park, she might look around and take note of the people who are there and what they are doing. A man alone staring at people is going to standout and look weird next to a bunch of couples or families, playing with a dog, or kids walking around, eating ice cream.
When this man approaches, she would have recognized him as someone acting oddly, so she would be careful to keep her distance and not relinquish and personal Information. Also, she would probably not agree to a second meeting, especially if she paid attention to her gut feeling of unease.
Second, the man asking for your Personal Information may be a Red Flag. You should not give up personal information to strangers in an encounter like this. The man may very well be who he says he is, but you should still be careful if you decide to see him again.
This very well could turn out to be a potential romantic relationship with someone who cares about the same things you do, but this kind of process takes time, and the Dark Psychology user is more likely to try and expedite the process through charm and clever Lies. Be wary of someone who tries to expedite a friendly relationship with you right away.
Also, someone who is lying to you about his background or anything else will often shift his eyes away while he is thinking and coming up with the lie at the moment.
Pay attention to his behavior, just like he is observing you, and look for signs that he is trying hard to think and fill in gaps in his story to make himself sound more believable.
Next, you can really throw a Dark Psychology user off guard by asking questions. Play his game against him and make him come up with good answers to personal questions and questions about his work, his past times, and where he lives.
Nothing is off the table. If he is genuine, Honest person, this Information will roll off the tongue, and you will probably get some kind of positive gut feeling that this person is not a Threat.
However, if you see this man fidgeting, Looking away, or looking down at the ground, then it is likely he is trying hard to think of plausible answers, and you`ve knocked off his concentration.
In this situation, simply put up your Guard, don`t offer any relevant information about yourself or your Life, and feel free to enact some of those signals mentioned above, which will broadcast disinterest. Make your conversation answers short in order to bring the interaction to an end, or ask directly that you be left alone as you just want to Relax and Read.
These things will tell the Dark Psychology user that he is not going to get what he wants from you, and, hopefully, he will back off. If not, it`s time to notify the authorities if he continues to follow you around.
Call a friend to back case scenario, and, hopefully, this never happens to you, but it is always good to have a plan for when something like this might occur.
So, In Next Chapter we will Discuss about "Manipulation Techniques"
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